Sunday, November 7, 2010

Leagues

"My dad says if you ever get to be with a girl who is too good for you, marry her"-Ashton Kutcher (Vatentine's Day)

How would you consider that a girl is too good for you?
You ever believe in the existence of leagues? Things like you both are of different leagues, when some said you both are at different leagues hence you're not meant to be together because there will be a gap in between or there are not much in common because the way you live and how you socialize is different. Many will agree with that because they agree that when you're with a guy/girl who is way too good for you, your self esteem will be lowered automatically.
But hey, to look in a different way or on a brighter note, its a great opportunity for you to improve yourself. Since you're already together it could possibly mean that the one from a higher league is partially accepting the one from the lower one. There will be expectations and demands but it is not really a bad thing. For me its healthy for self development wise.
But of course there will be a lot of tolerance needed.
It will not be good for you if you have low tolerance. Tolerating is not easy right. Especially if its for a long period of time.
In short, I don't agree with the thing when two person are of different leagues shouldn't be together. Somehow it could turn out to be great.

I saw this again on Janice's blog. I've seen this quote for many many times tho.

" Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lies under the stars and listen to your heartbeat or who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you are just as pretty without make up on. One who is constantly reminding you about how much he cares and how lucky is him to have you. The one who turns to his friend and said "That's her." "

Its not easy to find such a guy but it is not impossible.
To the guy who are able to do what was listed in the quote above: I know you're somewhere out there!

Many have asked me which type of guy are you attracted to?
I've not actually thought about this a lot and I've not tried listing it down the qualities or characteristics that I'm looking for.
Maybe I should give it a try haha. Some girls I know really do so. A checklist to evaluate a guy that they are interested in.
I guess my answer will be just like any other girl's answer. Those few basic things like a guy who's lovely, who cares and who loves you for who you are and etc. But for me knowing how to dress up and knowing how to cook is definitely a bonus. Hygienic is a must and I like those who smell good all the time. I would prefer someone who shares the same kind of interests with me and someone who love to go to the places that I like to go. And again, for sure if the guy is able to do what was listed in the quote above then it will be really really awesome. :D
I guess thats about it. My tolerance level is not that low. I'm pretty good at accepting I think.LOL

Anywayyyy, have a great week ahead everyone! For those who are sitting for exam ALL THE BEST! <3


p/s: I miss you guys! <3


xoxoxo,
Ciara




4 comments:

JaniceW said...

i rather choose a guy tat i dun love at all and feel secure, then a guy i love a lot but feeling insecure

Ciara said...

seriously............
i agree with you this time.
How about between a guy who loves you and accept you who you are, and a guy who wants you to be who he wants you to be but you love him a lot?
which one will you choose?

JaniceW said...

i will choose a guy who loves me and accept me for wat i am.. what's the point being together if he's nt proud of me?

Ciara said...

hmm okay..yes the feeling of someone who's so proud to have you is more awesome than being with someone who you totally fall deeply with but not feeling comfortable.